Sunday, January 4, 2015

A life lesson of 2014

In 2014, I came to realise who my true friends are.

I invested a lot of my time and effort this year into a friendship that I have come to realise was simply not worth it. Friendship is a two way street, and if you are the only one putting effort in, then it is not really a friendship at all.

Focus on the people who invest time in you as these are the people that truly care and are the people worth having in your life. I have 3 of the best friends I could ask for, I know that if I ever need them they would be there in a heartbeat, as would I for them.

It is not easy to let go of a friendship, especially when it is not your choice but you are better to come to terms with it and move on. It took me the best part of this year to do that and I am still not over it but I am adjusting. I know it is cliche but life is short so spend it with the right people, I can guarantee it will make you a lot happier.

I will always be there if ever that  person wants to step back in to my life, but for now my focus is on myself and all those people who have been there for my highlights of 2014.

I know this is a random one but it was just something I really wanted to express in words. I am so busy at the moment which is why I have been neglecting my blog but as soon as I can I will be back up and running.

Until next time,



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    1. Why thank you lovely!

      I have checked out the blog and followed it :)